Tuesday, May 13, 2008

8dp3dt - still bfn.

just to update you.

19 comments:

chicklet said...

While *I* am a crazy HomeDepot-obsessed lady, *you* are a crazy POAS-obsessed lady. It'd be nice if that obsession paid off and you got two lines though...

Kaci said...

Sucks, but still early, according to the stats. Ugh ugh ugh though!

KatieM said...

I am going to officially come out of lurking today. I have been waiting, watching and praying all week for this to be different. I know that, yes, you did the statistics below and the truth is it could still be too early with a 3dt, but I also know that statistics can be really fucked up and don't mean shit when your heart is breaking piece by piece as the days go by.

I can't even tell you how heavy my heart is to write this, and honestly that is the reason I didn't say anything until now about the testing. I was just hoping I would come back the next day to different news so I could forget that sadness. I know you were just looking for a chance....a chance to complete a cycle and not expecting a BFP and I know you have a "plan" ahead, but the fact is you did an FET just like everyone else and it may not have worked (yes, I am still saying "may not" at this point) and that fact, regardless of the situation is flat out unfair, and believe me I am crying with you.

Rachel Inbar said...

Still keeping my fingers crossed for you.

Wordgirl said...

Oh...I can hardly stand the suspense!

Don't count yourself out yet though...doesn't this suck? I won't even poas after this tww -- I can't -- but I can't stand my incessant hoping on the one hand and feeling hopeless on the other.

*sigh*

I know it isn't much of a consolation but I'm right there with you.

xo

Pam

Jewels said...

(((hugs)))
I'm so sorry hunny.

Candi B. said...

Nancy, I am so sorry...but still keeping my fingers crossed for your BFP.

Katherine said...

I still figure you have a couple of days of possibility remaining...I got my BFP on 9dp3dt, but it was FAINT even then. Fingers crossed, chica...

Duck said...

Still sucks, still hoping for another line.

Jen said...

I'm sorry... I am still hoping though.

Meg said...

Sorry Nancy, I really hope it is just still a little early.

~Carrie said...

I'm sorry - negative pee sticks *always* suck, I've seen them over and over. I know hearing that it could still be too early doesn't make you feel any better... but I hope it's just still too early.

I don't know if this will help, or will make you want to tell me to just shut up, but I know there is no way I would have seen gotten a positive at 6dp5dt (which I think would be very close to 8dp3dt) because at 9dp5dt, the second line was still super light.

Anonymous said...

(((HUGS)))

Anonymous said...

I am so sorry Nancy. My heart aches for you.

~~Hugs~~

Dot

Antigone said...

f*ck

Monica Fayth said...

:(

jenn said...

negatives ~do~ always suck. but a negative at this point after a 'real' chance (an FET chance at that) is pure hell & I am sorry you are going through it.

hugs & love.

Penny said...

Crappy. Crap! I hate that a negative stick doesn't tell you anything. It's not, "no, you're not pregnant," it's "I'm not going to tell you what the answer is."

Stupid pee sticks.

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