Wednesday, May 14, 2008

9dp3dt

yeah, it's over.

43 comments:

Anonymous said...

I am sorry Nancy. I didn't get my BFP with a fresh IVF cycle till 10dp5dt. I am still holding out hope.

Kaci said...

Fuck! I'm so sorry Nancy. I wish I had words that would help, but all I can say is I'm sorry. Fuckfuckfuck!

Birdee said...

I'm so sorry Nancy.
I wish (and still hope) that this would turn around. I cant believe the pain you must be going through, I'm crying with you/ for you, and for your 4 that didnt make it, I'm so so sorry :(
another (((~Zillion Hugs~)))

Anonymous said...

damn it. damn it damn it damn it. (((HUGS)))

Lori Lavender Luz said...

Oh, Nancy.

Is there anything I can do?

Sending a 90-mile stretch of a hug. (Maybe that's an overshot.)

Let me know if you'd like my phone #. We can talk.

Wordgirl said...

Is it really?

Oh Nancy, I'm truly sorry. I will, of course, remain hopeful, but it's a kind of sickness I have...ever hopeful.


XO

Pam

Sarah said...

I'm so sorry. Words can't express how sorry I am for you. Hugs...

Jess NBP said...

HUGS Nancy!!!

Morgan Owens said...

Just dropping a line to tell you im thinking about you nancy, im sure "sorry" is really getting played out to you by now

Anonymous said...

I really hate this for you. Hang on to hope for as long as you can, sweetie.
andrea

CanadianMama said...

I'm sorry Nancy!

Chastity said...

Oh Nancy, I am so so sorry!

Anonymous said...

look back at your post a few days ago, theres still time for a bfp!! i'm keeping my fingers doubly crossed for those double lines for you!!!

With IUIs and "natural" cycles, I know a BFP can happen as early as 9dpo, but it's not common to see them. I know that 10dpo is more common and I know that most pregnant women who actually know the specific day of ovulation will get a BFP on 11dpo. I know that I trust a 12dpo BFN at an 85% accuracy rate. I know a 13dpo BFN can be trusted 95%. I trust a 14dpo BFN 99%, even with the lack of AF.

i hope tomorrow is your day!!!

Miss Tori said...

(((((((((((((((Nancy)))))))))))))

Tori

Io said...

Shit. That sucks Nancy. Obviously I hope you are just slow to get a positive, but I will kick a wall for you regardless.

bleu said...

I am so sorry Nancy. It sucks and it hurts and I am so sorry.

Kelly said...

Oh Nancy (((Hugs))) I'm so sorry.

nancy said...

Anon - this is ~not~ a natural or IUI cycle. This is not a "dpo" type thing. EMBRYOS were placed in me 9 days ago. Those stats do not work.

Jen said...

I'm so very sorry.

Nadine said...

Nancy, there is still that evil hope thing. But, i'm sorry- this sucks.

..Soo.See.. said...

&@^$%!^!*#($$&!!!!!!!

Sorry nancy, [[[hugs]]] still keeping FX for you..

IdleMindOfBeth said...

Fuckity fuck fuck FUCK!

I'm so sorry hon! {{{gentle hugs}}}

Valerie said...

I'M SORRY

JJ said...

Fuck, Nancy. Damn...

Katherine said...

Ugh, Nancy. So sorry...(((HUGS)))

Anonymous said...

sorry for misunderstanding. sending you lots of hugs!!

Anonymous said...

(((((Hugs)))))

I've been checking in everyday and praying for good news for you. I am so sorry.

Gail

Natalie said...

Fuckity fuck fuck fuck. This just completely fucking sucks. Bah, this infertility shit is just all so completely stupid. If you have a drink tonight, let me know, and I'll drink one too, and think of you and your fucking suckiness.

Lollipop Goldstein said...

I am so sorry, Nancy.

Anonymous said...

((((Hugs))))

Penny said...

shit. I'm sorry.

Jules said...

I don't even know what to say but wanted you to know that I am thinking about you.

Agata said...

FUCK FUCK FUCKITY FUCK

I am so sorry. My heart hurts for you. If there was anything I could do to make this more bareable for you, I would... (((hugs)))

Dr. Grumbles said...

That still sucks.

Anonymous said...

I'm so sorry. I don't know what else to say other than what everyone else is saying.
Fuck.

Anonymous said...

I am so sorry Nancy.

jenn said...

fuck.

no words honey. I just wish I could change it.

tobacco brunette said...

Shit. This just sucks. I'm sorry, Nancy.

Anonymous said...

Words aren't enough. This totally sucks. Big ginormous virtual HUGS sent your way.

Lynda said...

I'm sorry.

Jamie said...

That fucking sucks assholes.

I'm so sorry .

Confessions of a momaholic said...

that sucks!

Antigone said...

Thanks to google reader I know I don't have to write any consolation because you got a PREGNANT!!!