TheNewLifeOfNancy...: I'm going to kill my husband.

Sunday, April 13, 2008

I'm going to kill my husband.

Is "justified homicide" a real defense?

I've been sick. SICK. Since Friday afternoon. Laid in bed. I feel shitty. Ugh.

He had to go up to Salida for work today. He was all worried that I wouldn't be up to it and he'd take the kids with him. Nice guy. I said I could manage, I just won't be doing much more than what was bottom line necessary.

He left before I woke up at 7am. 2 hours there. 2 hours back. Give him an hour at the work site and something to eat. Noon comes and goes - where IS he? He calls at 1:30pm.

"Hey, I'm just leaving Salida, I'll be home about 3:30!"

"What the hell are you still doing in Salida?!!" (me feeling sorry he got stuck with work on a Sunday)

"Oh, I decided to spend 1/2 day skiing". (there goes ANY feeling of sadness for the guy).

Seriously. Skiing.

5 comments:

Anonymous said...: Sounds pretty justified to me.

I hope you feel better soon!; April 13, 2008 at 5:37 PM
jenn said...: totally justified! I too hope you feel better soon.; April 13, 2008 at 5:54 PM
Anonymous said...: Ack! How insensitive ... Hope he was smart enough to stay clear of you when he got home. Or at least spoil you silly!; April 13, 2008 at 10:16 PM
Nadine said...: totally totally justified.; April 14, 2008 at 6:57 AM
Anonymous said...: OMG I would have had to have killed him. I am sure the jury would understand. :)

--Kristin; April 14, 2008 at 10:33 AM

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